The God Who Loves

Jun 7, 2026    Pastor Chris Eshleman

We often use the word 'love' casually, applying it to everything from pizza to people, but when we encounter the phrase 'God so loved the world' in John 3:16, we're confronted with something radically different. This exploration reveals that our natural loves are fundamentally reciprocal—we love things because they benefit us or possess qualities we find attractive. Yet God's love operates on an entirely different plane. The 'world' in Scripture doesn't refer to something lovable; it describes a realm ignorant of God, hostile to His ways, and enslaved to passing desires. The world didn't recognize Jesus when He came, and ultimately put Him to death. So when we read that God loved this world, we're witnessing love that gives without expecting return, love that reaches toward those who are actively opposed to the Lover. The word 'so' in John 3:16 doesn't mean 'so much'—it means 'in this way.' God demonstrated His love not by affirming our supposed goodness, but by giving His only Son, breaking the eternal harmony between Father and Son so that we might be reconciled. This is the scandal and beauty of the gospel: we're not loved because we're lovable, but because God's nature is to give sacrificially even to His enemies.